Why I created Husband Shopping Networking (HSN)
Modern women need tools to thrive in love, and healthy masculine men deserve more appreciation & recognition. Plus here's why I call it HSN....PLUS A BACHELOR I WANT YOU TO MEET!!!
Your evolutionary biology didn’t get the feminism message.
You’ve broken glass ceilings, conquered corporate, and excel independently…
but deep down, you still want a man that feels like THE MAN.
Someone who feels safe enough for you to take off your Superwoman cape.
Someone you can lean into.
And yet—after all that career focus, the love life often takes a hit.
Meanwhile, men in your same socioeconomic lane?
They’re out here with even more dating optionality—and can now impress younger women, too.
As a matchmaker, I see it firsthand:
Men and women are not the same when it comes to mate selection.
When women make money, they don’t typically gravitate toward a smokin’ hot trophy husband who looks great while she happily pays all the bills.
There’s nothing wrong with that dynamic—but most straight women aren’t looking for a trophy.
They’re looking for a partner who makes them feel safe.
So… what’s a gal to do?!
Here’s the good news:
Good guys do exist.
But guess what?
They’re also overlooked.
Undervalued on the apps.
Ghosted and written off as boring.
Or worse—cut off at the first sign of disagreement.
The truth is…
Women need more context to make smart, empowered romantic decisions. We need sisterhood over swiping and vouched referrals to reliable men.
Because height and job title don’t tell you:
– What kind of father he is (or will be)
– How he handles stress and setbacks
– How he treats people who have less power than him
– How he shows up when no one’s watching
– How commitment-ready he truly is
Good men do exist.
But as women, we also have to attune our energy in order to notice them.
It’s easy to focus on the horrible things broken men are doing.
To trauma bond over dating disasters.
To swap cautionary tales.
But here’s the thing—
That doesn’t actually protect you.
And it certainly doesn’t stop predators from thriving in the online space.
What you give energy to…expands.
So here’s what we can do:
✨ We can notice the good men already in our lives—and give them a spotlight.
Maybe you’re thinking,
"Sounds great, but I don’t know any bachelors!"
You do.
You probably just don’t think of them as “bachelors” or “husband material” at first glance.
Because maybe they’re…
– A close friend
– A kind-hearted ex
– A thoughtful coworker
– Your relative (single dads, adult sons, sweet cousins, widowed grandpas, etc. all need love too!)
– That random guy who always shows up when someone needs a hand
✨ We can redirect our own energy into being solutions-focused.
And—like magic—we start aligning with men who spring into action, solve problems, protect, and provide.
✨ We can get better at choosing.
No one can predict the future.
But a relationship doesn’t need to last forever to be meaningful.
If every relationship ends in drama, confusion, or pain?
Time for a little self-inquiry.
I call it the Husband Shopping Network (HSN)—
a little joke about how some women treat dating like shopping for the perfect pair of shoes.
Inputting a long list of “must-haves”...
with very little regard for what he might want, need, or prefer in return.
But men—like shoes—you can like them all you want…
If they’re not your best fit, you’ll always be uncomfortable.
And the best part?
Everyone has a fit.
If they’re open to what will actually work.
Now for the fun part.
Here’s a bachelor I want you to meet.
He’s 40, South Asian, and the quiet, confident, sensitive-intellectual type.
A grounded, frequent traveler with roots in NJ—
looking for a marriage-minded woman who’s up for life’s next adventure.
He’s open to dating across the U.S. Wealthy, kind, and down to earth. Looking for someone intellectually curious and adventures. Open to all types of beauty. He’s happy to travel to meet the right one.
Want a free intro?
Just message me and I’ll send his profile your way. If it’s a match…we’ll take it from there. 💌
My email is anmorris@alumni.princeton.edu
Have a good guy to recommend?
Let me know! You’ll earn a prize and the sweet satisfaction of knowing you helped someone find love.
My email is anmorris@alumni.princeton.edu
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